2.26.2011

Sidewalks & Streets

Now that I've posted some of the wonderful things about Mexico, let's look at a few things that we appreciate SO much more about the U.S. after living here:

#1- SIDEWALKS
This is the sidewalk that we walk down to go to Blockbuster, the pine tree park (I'll post pics of that later), and our new favorite bakery. I think Kylee actually enjoys riding over this in her stroller. This sidewalk probably fits in much more with the "Mexico" that most of you picture!
 I told Linc that will be a miracle if I don't trip & break a bone while I'm living here. I trip on sidewalks quite often anyway, but tripped pretty much every time I walked down one when we first moved here. I'm learning to be more careful though. I haven't tripped in awhile. (Knock on wood.)

#2-STREETS
I appreciate even more now how well-maintained the streets in Mesa are! We stumbled upon this mess in the road yesterday. At first there was a hole in the road, with a miniature tree & a small mound of concrete stuck in it, so that we would drive around it & not drive into the hole. Now it looks like this...
The hole is filled & they moved the mini tree in front of it with an even bigger pile of concrete, so that we wouldn't drive on the original (now filled) hole while it was wet. That's right! No cones, no signs...just a mound of stuff to drive around. Gotta love living in Mexico!!! :)

2.25.2011

1st Trip Downtown

Today my friend Heather invited Kylee & I to go with her & her 4 girls to a museum downtown. It was a really fun outing! Kylee loved hanging out with the girls, and Heather & I enjoyed talking nonstop while trying to find our way around downtown Guadalajara.

Kylee sporting Dylan's sunglasses...
They had some really cool buildings downtown, including beautiful churches like this one...
These weird alien-spider-people statues were in front of the museum. Heather & I couldn't keep our hands off this guy! :)
The girlies...
I know, I know...you are SO jealous that I live by a wall with random paintings & a cow statue and that you don't...
AND you wish that you could take pictures of your kid in front of creepy paintings, like I can...
We would definitely like to go back to the city and do a little more exploring sometime. Thanks for the fun day girls!!!

2.24.2011

My Social Life

I don't have much of a social life here. I have no car. All of the girls that I'm friends with have more than one kid, & some of them home school their kids...so they are quite a bit busier than I am. Of course I stay busy with:
Cleaning. There is a lot more to clean when you move into a bigger house.
Cooking. I am actually enjoying making dinner every night. I never thought that day would come. I used to hate cooking!
Taking care of Kylee. She is at an absolutely exciting, hilarious stage but is definitely developing more of an attitude! I don't even know how many times she went to time-out today. :)
Walking the dogs. I am SO, SO glad that we brought Daisy & Duke to Mexico with us. They make me happy.
Lincoln gets home around 5pm every weekday, except Wednesday. On Wednesdays, he doesn't get home until 8:30pm. Every other night, though, we are able to eat dinner together and go on a walk, or do something else as a family, before Linc spends the rest of the night studying. I cherish that time with all of us together! We get to spend part of each weekend with him too, which is great.

We've been in Mexico for just over 7 weeks. It feels like we have been here for 6 months. Honestly. Living here has been a huge adjustment for me. I'm used to seeing my family every few days and seeing my friends & neighbors multiple times during the week. I'm used to my ward members living right by me. It is hard being without everyone. On the other hand, I feel like I've known my friends here for much longer than 7 weeks. I've already learned so much from the people here and have been inspired by them. I'm lucky to be able to meet so many amazing people in one lifetime!

So while I'm lonely some days, I'm doing fine. I'm learning so much about myself. My weaknesses & strengths have become more obvious to me (& probably Linc) since I've been here. I'm relying on the Lord more. Life definitely moves at a slower pace here, and I enjoy it. Once I started feeling better after my hysterectomy, I tried to jump back into things very quickly...but this move has forced me to slow down again, and to take time to enjoy the little things around me. Heavenly Father definitely knows what I need so much better than I do. I am very thankful that he brought me here to Mexico! I do miss all of you badly though! :)

Neighborhood Scenery

Here are a few pictures of our neighborhood. These should give you a better idea of the area that we live in. We drive to the end of a cobblestone street & come to this roundabout, with 3 cotos in a little semicircle. Ours is the coto in the middle, directly behind the roundabout.
(Sorry about the spot on the first two pics.)
I took the above picture while standing in another grass area, where the dogs & Kylee & I like to spend time. It is a nice little area with a gazebo...
There are trees & benches surrounding the gazebo. Aren't the trees here beautiful?
A closer look at the fountain & roundabout...
Here is the guard station in front of our coto, where one of two guards is posted 24/7.
This is a view of our street when we are entering the coto. Our house is 4th from the end, on the left side. The clubhouse (with the pools & park that I posted about) are at the end of our street.
I LOVE our neighborhood. It is one of my most favorite things about living here in Mexico. I feel so safe here and our neighbors are very kind. We are so lucky!!!

P.S.-I think it is so green here right now, but I've heard that this is the ugly time of year! The rainy season hits in 4 or 5 months from now & then it is supposedly GORGEOUS. I can't wait to see how green it can get!

2.21.2011

Buffet!

We went out to eat at a buffet with Thomas & Jenn & their kids tonight. It was a lot of fun! We let Kylee basically feed herself whatever she wanted. Kylee & I ate a ton of dessert & came home hyper & ready to burn off some energy!

Kylee was COVERED in mac & cheese and pudding...

Hanging upside down on the couch...
(with the camera string in the way)
Filthy hands...
I love that Kylee knows how to make crazy faces now! :)
I ADORE her!!!

2.20.2011

No Hablo Espanol

I think I've always been fairly good at laughing at myself when I do something stupid...but since moving here to Mexico, I've had a lot more opportunities to do so. This whole not-knowing-the-language thing is killing me. I have good intentions of studying Spanish every day, but my priorities seem to change during the day, and I find myself going to bed at night not knowing much more Spanish than I did the day before. 

I'm sure those around me would love for me to learn the language. My friend Montse helps me all the time. The other day she came over & asked if I knew what the guy who had knocked on my door a few hours before had wanted. I told her that I thought he had wanted me to buy phone books from him. It turns out that the phone books were free & he was asking for our old phone books in exchange for the new ones. I just said "No gracias" & shut the door, as he stood there & chuckled. 

Today Lincoln was supposed to give a talk in church. Before the meeting started, a counselor in the bishopric told him that they would only need him to speak if there was extra time at the end of sacrament meeting. If not, they would have him speak another day. In the middle of the final speaker's talk, near the time when the meeting was supposed to end, Kylee started screaming so Linc took her out. After the talk was over, the bishopric member got up & said something that I didn't understand...then "Lincoln Hiatt...esta aqui?" I knew that meant "Is he here?" so I jumped up, held up my finger saying "Just a minute" to the bishopric member & ran out looking for Lincoln. When I found him outside, I said, "Lincoln! They want you to speak! RIGHT NOW!" Lincoln of course is saying "What?! Right now?" and ran inside to grab his notes so that he could give his talk. 

I walked into the chapel a couple minutes later, as they were singing the closing song. I asked Linc, "Why aren't you speaking?" He said, "Anjane'! They were sustaining me to my calling...not asking me to speak!" Ha ha ha. We got a good laugh out of that one. I'm trying hard not to feel like a total dork here. It's not working yet. :)

P.S.- Linc is the new YM/YW Sunday School teacher. They haven't had a teacher for 6 months. It makes me appreciate how smoothly the wards in the U.S. run, although I have to say that I love the feeling of our small ward pulling together to make things work!

2.19.2011

Fun With Dad

Fridays are really good days for Kylee & I. They mark the start of the weekend, which means time off of school for Lincoln to spend with us! He still has to study, but we get to hang out with him for part of the time that he has off, and it is wonderful. Yesterday, Linc took Kylee outside to help water the plants and wash the truck. She was in heaven, spending 1-on-1 time with her dad!

"Mommy, why are you ruining our fun & trying to take my picture?!"

 All wet!

 Man, we love this girl!!!

2.17.2011

You May Be Surprised...

You may be surprised to hear that everyone here in Mexico seems to think that I am Mexican. Maybe it is because I wear pants most days & they don't see my incredibly white legs? :) No, but really...the people here have much lighter skin than I realized. I don't know if it is good or bad that people don't realize that I am an American when they see me. I like that I don't stick out like a sore thumb. However, I don't love that people speak Spanish to me super fast, thinking that I will immediately understand them. When I say "Hablo pequito Espanol" ("I speak very little Spanish") they look at me in surprise. I do enjoy seeing their shock when Lincoln (who they know is an American by looking at him) speaks Spanish fluently! :)

2.14.2011

Happy Valentine's Day

Have I ever written about the first time I met Lincoln? My cousin Brian was coming to Mesa and wanted to set me up with his cousin (on the other side), who was coming with him. All I knew about my date was that his name was Lincoln & that he had just gotten home from his mission. On the day of our date, Brian & Linc arrived to pick me up as I was walking outside to take the trash out. Lincoln got out of the car, walked up to me, took the trash bag out of my hand & asked, "Where is your trash can?" Those were seriously the first words he ever said to me. Is it any wonder that I ended up marrying the boy? :)

My definition of love includes these things:
ENCOURAGING EACH OTHER DURING THE TOUGH TIMES...
ALWAYS BEING SUPPORTIVE...
SHARING THINGS WITH EACH OTHER THAT YOU WOULDN'T SHARE WITH ANYONE ELSE...
AND LOVING YOUR SPOUSE FOR WHO THEY ARE.
And I had to add this picture, just for fun... :)
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY LINC.
You are my best friend. I love you!!!

Photos taken in 2008 by Forget Me Not Photography

Hangout Spot

Because our back porch is all tile, we end up going to one of two places during the day to play in the grass...one of them is the park in our coto. We let the dogs & Kylee run around here & they love it. I've said multiple times that the weather here is amazing. We thoroughly enjoy it! I feel so thankful every time I am able to spend time outdoors. There were so many days when I wasn't feeling well & wished so badly that I could just see the sun & spend time outside! Now I can have that whenever I want it. It is a blessing that I will never take for granted!

Linc enjoying the view of the city while the dogs wrestle...
Pool #1...with a view of the huge houses behind us.
Pool #2... a smaller one that I'm sure Kylee will love!
Kylee hanging out by the tennis courts...
She finally likes wearing sandals. They look so cute on her little feet!
Chilling with Daddy after school one day...
Doesn't she look so old?!

2.11.2011

Kylee 18 Months

 Well, I missed Kylee's 17-month update during the move...I know, I know, monthly updates are a little much, but I love looking back & reading what she learned each month. Kylee turned 18 months old at the end of January. I just have to warn you, this is a very long post. I thought our families would appreciate hearing how much Kylee has changed since we moved, though...so here it is!

Kylee is talking like CRAZY...in English & Spanish! She mostly just copies the Spanish words...but she does know "hola", "gracias", and "adios" and uses them in the right context. As far as her English goes...Kylee speaks in sentences & has good grammar. It is so weird to hear that many words coming out of her little mouth! Of course, she doesn't talk nearly as much around other people as she does around Linc & I, but we definitely get a kick out of the things she has been saying lately.

Kylee's favorite show is Dora The Explorer. She even watched it in Spanish the other day. It's quite the experience watching Dora in Spanish. The dubbing is pretty bad and Dora sounds like she sucked on helium balloons. Plus, it just sounds so funny hearing them speak Spanish with random English words interjected throughout their conversations & songs. Kylee loves to watch it, regardless of the language it is in though. :) She does a good job (when watching the English version) of following the instructions on the show, yelling "Map!" or "Backpack!" when prompted. She also loves saying, "Man!" after Swiper says "Aw, man!", and says it in the cutest tone. In fact, during our first week of church here, a man was praying (in Spanish of course) and finished with "Amen", pronouncing it "Ah-men". Well, Kylee thought the guy said "Aw, man." and yelled out "MAN!" It was REALLY funny.

Kylee has also been practicing her colors. Lincoln has a shirt that has pink, black and blue designs on it, and Kylee loves to point to each color and name it. She also has a talent for remembering people's names. I'm constantly amazed at how many people she calls by name now. Since being around her older cousin Kirtlyn, Kylee is suddenly very into Barbies & the Disney princesses. She loves to go on walks with Daisy, Duke & I during the day and we often end up at the little park in our coto, where she loves to swing & run around. She also enjoys finding cigarette butts on the ground, pointing to them, and yelling "yuck!". She has developed a habit of saying "Bye pool!" & waving to the swimming pool every time we leave the park too.

Kylee's favorite foods right now are yogurt, peanut butter, crackers & pizza. She also really likes spicy foods. She even ate the bell peppers & onions that I picked off my supreme pizza today! She is afraid of some of the loud noises here, especially the buses. When we are out walking & a bus drives by, she screams "Aaghhh! Bus!" and runs to me. We like looking at the different flowers in our neighborhood & naming their colors. Kylee also likes to copy the made-up songs that I sing during the day and will sometimes sing random words to me. It cracks me up!

Kylee adores Daisy & Duke. She tries to walk them with their leashes, gives them each a treat after their walks, throws their tennis ball to them & gives them kisses. Daisy & Duke are getting to be quite protective of her too. Kylee can finally tell the difference between the two dogs & calls them each by name, instead of calling both of them "DaisyDuke".

So now that I've written almost EVERY detail of what Kylee is doing at 18 months, here are a few more things that she has been up to:

She still LOVES jewelry & puts some on every day...
 Her coloring skills are improving...
And she takes great care of her dolls...
(Linc shares his earphones with Kylee when he listens to music, so she decided to do the same for her baby. How funny is that?!)

Kylee also likes to wear Mommy's hat...
 And she loves taking baths with her new tea set from the $1 store.
 Kylee asks for crackers all day long. The first words out of her mouth when she wakes up in the morning are, "Mommy, I want crackers." Those are also the last words out of her mouth each night before she falls asleep. She also likes to see how many crackers she can fit in her mouth at one time...
 She still loves her bottle.
 I'm hoping to have her off the bottle in the next month. She is great at drinking water out of a regular cup, but refuses to drink milk unless it is in her bottle!

Kylee is still really good at making messes...
 She loves to read books...
 And just got a new Winnie the Pooh toilet seat!
This past month she randomly started telling me when she needs to go to the bathroom & which one she needs to do. :) She still ends up going in her diaper, but I'm excited that she thinks to tell me without me ever asking her! She will sit on her toilet seat for about 30 seconds & then wants to get off...but I figure it is a good step. Luckily she is so young that I don't feel the need to rush it. However, not having to buy diapers anymore sounds pretty heavenly to me!

We are so thankful for the little things that Kylee does that bring us so much joy. We love having a child in our home! I have thought multiple times since she joined our family, how much I love seeing her toys & shoes & everything else laying around the house. As funny as it sounds, that is something that I dreamed of for a long time. When I was pregnant with Jackson, I always visualized his clothes laying out or his toys all over the floor...and then when I had him, his clothes stayed in his closet & his toys stayed in their boxes. Seeing Kylee's things being used makes me happy. Seeing her grow & learn & develop makes me thankful. Seeing her point to Jackson's picture & say "Baby Jackson" makes me feel so privileged to have her as my daughter & to have a sweet son in heaven. Life doesn't get much better than this. You're awesome Kylee. Thank you for everything that you do for us!!!

The Queen Bee

Kylee loves to think that she is the Queen Bee around here. 
She enjoys relaxing in her big chair with her feet up on the table...
And thinks she is hot stuff in her bright pink shoes & jacket...
Plus, she has perfectly mastered the "strut"...
I don't blame her. If I was that cute, I would probably milk it for all it was worth, too!

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